nowadays, might be worth looking into nix flakes

tons of super performant nextcloud flakes being uploaded to github, difficulty is understanding nix, but it’s worth it

The blessing of selhosting

Your pursuit for digital soverignity has come to an end

• Server maintenance: lose one bonus action per round
• Media server of pirated movies: gain one random spell roll at the start of your turn when in combat
• Tales of docker: Frighten a creature for 2 rounds, but lose 1 Charisma for 10 rounds
• Tailscale: spend an action point to access your camp chest from anywhere

have you tried using a vpn, e.g. tailscale?

extremely easy to set up, if you are a selfhost purist, there’s headscale as a direct alternative.

only really good at doing stuff in a personal workspace, not really made for exposing to the public internet, still very possible tho